Wednesday, December 22, 2010

punishing children


Punishing children
Children are the hope of life and the candle of the future. Good ways to raise children are based on dialogue, discussion without violence and punishment. Punishment should not be used with children because it is very wrong and does not reach a positive result.
Main reason parent use punishment is because their children disobey them. However, this method does not produce good and constructive children. Due to punishment, the child does not feel sincere love from parents; this feeling may cause the child to suffer severe mental illness in his life. Moreover, using violence and cruelty on a daily basis makes children more aggressive and stubborn. In addition, it is no secret to anyone that the effects of violence may appear while children are sleeping. For example, the children have a lot of the nightmares and they see ghosts in their dreams.
Finally, in my opinion I believe that dialogue and understanding are the best solutions to many problems. Also negative style of the punishment and the power do not reach to positive side. That way, children will not be negatively affected by punishment.

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